Session 7: 

When should I act?  How should I act?

Session overview

In this seventh session, we consider how easy it can sometimes be to walk down a particular path and, before we know it, feel so overwhelmed by a situation that it seems there's no way back. This is achieved using the concept of a nexus point — a singular decisive moment that can significantly change the trajectory or outcome of a particular situation.

Last time, students decided that they wanted to be responsible for their own choices. Now they'll consider taking that responsibility and, importantly, understanding the optimum timeframe for making decisions that don't narrow down their options or lead them to choices they would not want to make? On the face of it, this seems easy. However, it's not always straightforward when confronted with decisions that put them at odds with what friends, peers or other influences believe and how these drive their own psychological needs.

The key to this is striking a balance between the kind of risks that all young people must take as they develop and grow; and the unnecessary risks that can lead them into harm, the unintended consequences of their actions. Understanding this begins with examining the concept of risk and why it's an essential part of growing up before looking again at Ella's Story to explore the fine line between risk and the small, step-by-step decisions that lead inexorably to nexus points that are difficult to avoid.

The science of adolescent risk-taking leads to two broad conclusions when seeking to help young people better regulate the risks they face. First, bombarding them with the facts won't help them make better decisions and might encourage a less mature, riskier form of reasoning. Second, because adolescents' brains are not yet mature, exposure to significant risks should be limited asmuch as possible.

In terms of the second point, it's not always easy to control a young person's environment all of the time. Therefore, we have to find ways to empower them to do so. A major developmental milestone in becoming an adult is learning to manage emotions; so you don't get fired from a job or ruin friendships. We learn how to control our passion. This is partly linked to the brain growing, dopamine levels lowering, and hormones settling down. Still, it is also about building more experience and developing our repertoire of things to do when we feel upset or angry. Some of this happens with maturation, but it can also be encouraged or taught.

 The Choices Programme aims to do precisely that, using stories as a critical mechanism to introduce learning. The human brain processes imagined experiences, such as stories, in the same way as real ones, creating genuine emotions, presence (the sense of being somewhere) and behavioural responses. Our research tells us that the use of characters as proxies in this way enables young people to safely explore challenges they might face but in an objective, thoughtful way while also identifying with the characters and learning from their situations. Ultimately, this helps them to build their experience and, consequently, their capability to act.

A. Key takeaways

B. Resources required

All resources can be found at the foot of this page 

❏ Teacher notes for Session Seven

❏ Checklist for Session Seven

❏ Slide pack for Session Seven

❏ Worksheet(s) for Session Seven

Sticky notes

C. Terminology introduced

Please note any new terminology used and share it with Lime with as part of this pilot.

Starter activity: Pairs

What if...

Risk is an essential component of a balanced childhood. Exposure to healthy risks, particularly physical, enables children to experience fear and learn about their strengths and limitations. Neuro-imbalance theory is concerned with the idea that the emotional part of the brain develops earlier than the prefrontal cortex (the part responsible for decision-making), or at least that they're not wired together very well until later in life. This leads adolescents to take risks that most adults wouldn't—not because they think they're invincible, but because emotions rule the day, and they have very high levels of dopamine in their brain. Consequently, things appear more exciting, more enticing to them. They are more driven by reward, and want to go after something with a high potential yield reward—like the thrill of the rollercoaster. However, it doesn't just apply to rollercoaster rides. Driving 100 miles per hour or taking drugs elicit the same feelings of excitement too.

This brain chemistry is evolutionarily advantageous to humans because we need young, healthy risk-takers who can run faster and tolerate extremes of temperature and pain. We need these adolescents to find new food and water sources and new mates. However, teens also get sick, injured, into trouble and die, in more significant numbers because of the behaviours they engage in, the emotions they feel, and the way they think about things. That's the adolescent paradox.

The following exercise uses two intervention strategies to support effective risk management. The first is all about developing emotional and personal cues. The most salient cues to making mature decisions are simple, visceral, and personal, so the questions posed force students to confront a 'what if' scenario. The second teaches self-efficacy. Giving young people real-world tasks and concrete strategies helps them become responsible and capable. In this example, students will practice refusal skills; repeated practice leads to improved self-confidence in using these skills when needed, often in situations involving high emotion that can disrupt thinking. A well-practised skill can be used automatically without requiring a lot of thinking.

EXPLAIN:

Taking risks is an integral part of life. We have to take risks to improve, develop and grow. For example, a toddler learning to walk is likely at risk of occasionally falling over and hurting themselves, but this doesn't mean we should discourage them from trying. As we get older, while the risks become more complex and potentially more dangerous, they provide no less learning, but we have to learn to manage them effectively.

In today's session, we'll look at some of the risks Ella has taken. We met Ella and immediately learned about the differences between how she sometimes feels due to her family circumstances and how she appears on her social media channel. Like anyone, she wants to feel that she belongs. However, this sometimes seems to put her at odds with her friends and parents, those closest to her. We have also seen how this drives her to make choices without always considering where they lead her.

ASK: 

What would happen if someone shared a nude of you without your consent?

• Who would you tell?

• How would it change your life?

Students should spend five minutes discussing the questions in pairs while you circulates between groups.

EXPLAIN: 

We'll return to this scenario at the end of the session 

Activity one: Ella's risk

Risks will have less appeal if young people perceive more significant benefits from alternative, safer courses of action. For younger adolescents, as in this case, it's a good idea to help them think about short-term benefits and risks, as these are the most salient. This particular activity introduces another risk management strategy, i.e. assisting adolescents in seeing benefits, not just risks.

Assign students to three groups 

EXPLAIN:

In your groups, look back at the story, taking time to consider and note what you feel were the key decision points of the story and capturing these using sticky notes.

Allow students 10 minutes to put their research together then,

Each group should briefly talk through their list while the teacher (or a student) organises the points into a timeline showing the key events. The aim is to develop a 'sticky note wall' adding the specific events that the whole class agrees upon and working these up into a chronological timeline. Record their timeline (i.e. photograph)

Next, review the timeline on the list in chronological order, adding brief notes using Worksheet 7a to record the risks they might pose, any alternative actions Ella could have taken, and the potential benefits of doing so.

ASK: 

How did what happened at each point contribute to the next thing that happened? i.e. did it make it more or less likely?

• What might be the eventual outcome from all of this?

The idea is to establish that small incremental steps often mean that young people can 'sleepwalk' into more serious situations than they would have recognised or predicted, unknowingly finding themselves at a point they neither expected nor wanted. Contrast this with the alternatives and where they might have led instead.

Note: It is usual for participants to pick out only what might be described as 'catastrophic' events (such as the use of firearms, serious violence, etc.). This is fine and will be addressed later in the session. However, it is crucial to lead the session to a point where students recognise that earlier, apparently less disastrous decisions are often a critical factor in setting those catastrophic events in motion.

Activity two: Understanding nexus points

Nexus points are moments when a timeline can change, creating an alternative reality. In other words, they are events where a critical decision causes a fork in the path for a person, or in this case, a character. Analysing these nexus points provides an essential mechanism to help young people 'think forward' to the potential consequences of their decisions. However, in this activity, students benefit from knowing the entire timeline and working back from a consequence or possible consequence to understand how earlier decisions led to that point.

EXPLAIN:

We’re going to explore something called, nexus points

• ’Nexus points’ are 'decisive moments where an outcome might fundamentally change’

• These moments are usually arrived at due to previous decisions

• Such decisions are shaped by the psychological state of a person in that given situation.

• Generally, they result from the habits you learn, often without thinking, to determine the choices you make.

Let’s compare these to the list you came up with

Students should work from the pre-defined list provided, which should hopefully include all of the things they previously mentioned. Summarise each of the nexus points, explaining that, we often tend not to associate more serious events with ones that —on the face of it— appear trivial or less significant without knowing the full context and the outcome of the story. Therefore the idea is to start encouraging students to think about decisions and potential consequences as well as where a chain of events truly begins.

Plenary: Choosing our moments

At the start of the session, we looked at emotional and personal cues as a strategy to support effective risk management, and students were challenged to think about the impact of a fictional but all-too-common scenario. We'll build upon this to finish the session, introducing an additional strategy to help develop self-efficacy. Giving young people real-world tasks and concrete strategies helps them become responsible and capable. In this example, students will practice refusal skills. Repeated practice leads to improved self-confidence in using these skills when needed, often in highly emotive situations that can disrupt thinking. A well-practised skill can be used automatically without requiring a lot of thought.

EXPLAIN:

Even when we understand how complex decision-making can be, the right choices are not always easy or obvious, and we can quickly walk down a path, one step at a time, which can lead to negative consequences.

We should now think about what help or skills we need, which we will cover in the next three sessions. To begin preparing for that, let's return to the situation we looked at right at the beginning, where we thought about the impact of someone sharing a nude of you without your consent.

ASK: 

What could you say to someone who asks you to send a nude or intimate picture of yourself?

Students should spend five minutes discussing this with their partner and, if time, encourage some to share their thoughts with the whole group.

EXPLAIN:

Between now and the next session, add a few notes to your Reflection Journals, remembering the 5Fs.

Prompt with the following questions:

Facts — What happened? What did I experience?

Feelings — What impacted me and how did I feel?

Findings — What truths/assumptions did I have about the session/myself/the process? What can I learn?

Future — How would I like to apply my insights in the future?

Friends — Share reflections, learnings and actions with others

Think specifically about today's session, and note whatever you think or feel about your own basic needs and how they might impact decisions you have made. We will revisit this later in the programme.

Note: encourage students to take responsibility for what they share. Some things they will likely want to keep to themselves as 'personal reflection'

Delivery resources

LIME Choices Y7 Session 7 Checklist (V01 27-12-21).pdf

Delivery checklist

LIME Choices Y7 Session 7 Work Sheet(s) (V01 28-12-21).pdf

Work sheet(s)

LIME Choices Y7 Session 7 DP Slides (V01 27-12-21).pdf

Slides (PDF)

LIME Choices Y7 Session 7 DP Slides (V01 27-12-21).pptx

Slides (PowerPoint)